at times like this, i really love shooting me down with all the mistakes i did.people keep on telling me “move on move on” and i reply them ‘cannot’..i do move on..i just like thinking negative..well, if i had been more mindful of my surrounding,i may have settled down earlier than i expected. but judging from what happened before this, i guess i really have to wait abit longer. one of them just left me after helping her out with a few things. another one’s busy with school. and the most recent one. well, it was me.
i shan’t say who’s who cause pointing fingers here won’t be as satisfying.anyways i just want to talk about the most recent mistake i did with ms ‘pretty’. you know who you are.i won’t say it cos i want to protect your identity babe.
first up, if she hadn’t been so random..i wouldn’t have gotten to know her till now..in fact i wouldn’t even know that she was staring at me.
it all started..im at work,fucking boring weekday closing..went for my 2nd smoke break..i saw this lady on the phone..wasn’t sure who noticed who first at that time..but im pretty sure she was looking at me(full of myself yet true).. at first i wasn’t planning to move away from where i was but since she smiled at me, i figured okay..i guess i could sit around but not too close.i wasn’t planning on talking AT ALL.then from out of the blues, she asked this very question which triggered the whole conversation “not busy uh your place?”…two things came through my mind. first “why is this person talking to me?so random…” Secondly, ” she’s got a cute face.wonder what made her want to talk to me?”
and so, started the friendship between me and her..as i got to know more about her.. we grew closer to each other.. but she noticed something which i never really knew till now.. i never was serious when it comes to talking to her..i couldn’t bring myself to show her my feelings.. one reason was because..it’s only been a few weeks..i mean, how can someone fall for me in such a short time.. then i figured, now’s not the time…so we still continued doing our normal “smoke together talk normally” routine..
most days i would come down to visit her when she’s working..i don’t really mind cos i got loads of time to kill..still, i couldn’t bring myself to tell her how i feel.. she held me closer as the days go by.. i held her close too but couldn’t bring myself to say anything..
then came one day, where we had occasional arguments..mostly is me being injured and all…sometimes she’s too concerned about me and i don’t really know why she’d wanna do that..but i did appreciate what she did…hugging her sometimes i feel pain cos she hits on the exact injured areas..but its okay..if its her, i don’t mind the pain at all..
then one day, i found out she got together…i was shocked, happy,sad..you name it..i was utterly blank yet emotions running through my mind.. that’s when i thought, its too late for me now, better stab myself and not let her see you anymore…i’ve never confessed my feelings to anyone in person before..its always been indirect..and till now, i couldn’t bring myself to say it in front of her..
i wasted an opportunity to settle down and not think of anyone else anymore..but due to my blind nature and ever so good acting persona, she couldn’t figure out what i meant to her..till i finally confessed..indirectly.. but by then,it was too late..i told her everything she needed to know..i thought that she had personal problems that’s why she didn’t want to be with me…but i finally realised..it was me who was blind…she showered me with all she had and i just didn’t show my appreciation directly… i know that im grateful for all she’s done but couldn’t bring myself to say it…
all good things must come to an end.. im glad that the guy she’s with is someone she can relate to very well… it was the right decision to have gone for him than me..nonetheless, i thought about it time and time again, he’s waited for you for a longer time than me..i didn’t like the idea of cutting queue..despite my unemotional face and serious character, i still maintain the gentleman attitude..
for now, i guess i don’t know what’s gonna happen to me..but i pray her relationship lasts long and hopefully…just get married as well…it won’t do me any good cos it will create the biggest pain that i can tolerate..but its for her sake..i’ll just take that big fucking knife and stab myself..i just want her to be happy..unfortunately not with me..im still the same naive young brat people see..
that’s about it..the recent story…if you know who you are, keep this to yourself..you know im taking all the blame so its alright, this issue is not gonna point fingers at you..and those who know who im referring to, please keep it on the low..i don’t want to create conspiracies or hostile situations…thank you..
all i can say..if she hadn’t talked to me the first time, i wouldn’t have had the chance to smile sincerely and cry with tears..thank you..if you need me you know where to find me…but i can be sure you won’t need me anymore..but still, im available 24/7 for anyone in NEED.
until next time,
squeaky2.